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T O P I C R E V I E WbeckyleeI want to know what aspects or placements would make it easier to deal with long-distance relationships or situations where it takes too much effort to make the love survive.Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?bellehiKerosenerepress it.Moon trine saturnMars sextile saturn.belleHaven't got a solution at this moment for you. i am going through something similar to your title and to be honest i am very confused. Though i have not been delving too much into astrological answers currently as am rather emotional and struggling to focus. Sorry to be of no help at the moment> me sag, him libra (sun) cancer/ virgo (moon) love and peace xxxbellehiAscTaurusIf it requires too much effort, am out! I have Moon in Cancer/ Mars in Libra.Do you have Moon/ Venus or Mars in 12th house house/aspected by Neptune/in Pisces? I find that there are people that I know who have either of the positions mentioned and they find themselves either married or involved to a partner that is emotionally unavalaible when they need them.My boyfriend has Moon in 12th house and I live some 50 km away from him. He often complains that I am not "accessible".My Mom often says that my Dad was , when they were young in their early years of marriage, emotionally unavailable to her. She has her Moon opposing Neptune.My friend(an Aqua) had a live in mate who was more interested in his friends coming over and visiting than spending alone time with him. He has Moon in Pisces.I don't know, but am seeing a pattern; especially with Moon therein.hannaramaa^ I have Mars in the 12th house, Neptune in the 7th and Moon trine Neptune. The above fits me perfectly (if they are emotionally available, I am unavailable. I often need the unavailable ones)Yay.next to neptune quote:Originally posted by beckylee:I want to know what aspects or placements would make it easier to deal with long-distance relationships or situations where it takes too much effort to make the love survive.Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?Yes, I just met a libra guy like 1 month ago, and we clicked instantly, we have moon conjunction moon in pisces. But we really do have a lot of challenging aspects, both sun and mercury square neptune and venus square uranus, all of them pretty tight. Now he is gone for travelling, and he is going to be away for 3-4 months. I knew this from the beginning so I was prepared, and I have venus sextile uranus, saturn and neptune and moon square uranus so I'm pretty free-spirited in love, at least in the beginning before it really means the big deal. But if I know myself right, I think I will get tired of this in the end, I have a big wish of stability in my relationships after some time, I would like it to be safe and not so unpredictable in that way where you don't know what your partner want. And that he is travelling this time isn't the problem because it's only once every year, but the sun square neptune is really nagging me. I think I get paranoid that it isn't for real. I'm not gonna run away imidiately before he comes home and I can see if this is for real or not. But I would never enter a real long-term relationship, because it's simply to unstable. Even though we have a nice connection, I think he is just one of those guys it is exiting to know for a while, before I move on once again!12muddySaturn contacts in synastry are said to be binding.I guess that people who have aspects between Uranus / moon or venus would be ok with uncertainty. Uncertainty kinda excites me. I have moon square Uranus and venus conj Uranus.Also have a 12th house stellium and I "met" my husband online. We were living in different countries. I didn't feel that the relationship was difficult. With those 12th house planets I tend to wear rose-coloured glasses and get carried away with romantic ideals, so I was pretty much too "blinded" to notice the obvious difficulties. Abc333I have natal venus opposite uranus. Uncertainty is okay at first but the more time passes and the more attached I become I need security and need to know where things stand. Venus in Cancer in the 12th house. If it reaches that time frame where I become attached and want to know where things stand and you can't give me an answer then I'm OUT before I can feel any more pain. I also have Venus opposite Saturn as well.Before, I used to act like an erratic mess when things became uncertain and seemed unsecure. My progressed moon's in Scorpio now so I just amputate, always remember and move on the best I can.LibcapUncertainty like that's a bad thing?! That's the best part. I'm a libra sun, mercury, and mars. It might be a libra mars thing. I'm a 7th house in Scorpio so is Pluto. AquacheekaNope. I can't.I want commitment right from the get-go. I know, I'm weird like that.And I need a certain amount of constancy in my life, so LDRs wouldn't work for me.Abc333Uncertainty isn't a bad thing at first, but it can't last forever. Eventually, something's gotta give or go.StarlightSmileSupremeProbably something with Uranus, whether it be Moon/Venus/Mars?Barbiegirl19I always find myself wanting a guy more if he's married or in a relationship. It must be a libra thing lol I really don't like to admit to that because I feel like a home wrecker or something ridiculous like that but it's the truth. I'm always attracted or attract married men or men in relationships. Don't know what it is, I would hate if someone did that to me. :/
Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?
Do you have Moon/ Venus or Mars in 12th house house/aspected by Neptune/in Pisces?
I find that there are people that I know who have either of the positions mentioned and they find themselves either married or involved to a partner that is emotionally unavalaible when they need them.
My boyfriend has Moon in 12th house and I live some 50 km away from him. He often complains that I am not "accessible".
My Mom often says that my Dad was , when they were young in their early years of marriage, emotionally unavailable to her. She has her Moon opposing Neptune.
My friend(an Aqua) had a live in mate who was more interested in his friends coming over and visiting than spending alone time with him. He has Moon in Pisces.
I don't know, but am seeing a pattern; especially with Moon therein.
The above fits me perfectly (if they are emotionally available, I am unavailable. I often need the unavailable ones)
Yay.
quote:Originally posted by beckylee:I want to know what aspects or placements would make it easier to deal with long-distance relationships or situations where it takes too much effort to make the love survive.Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?
Yes, I just met a libra guy like 1 month ago, and we clicked instantly, we have moon conjunction moon in pisces. But we really do have a lot of challenging aspects, both sun and mercury square neptune and venus square uranus, all of them pretty tight. Now he is gone for travelling, and he is going to be away for 3-4 months. I knew this from the beginning so I was prepared, and I have venus sextile uranus, saturn and neptune and moon square uranus so I'm pretty free-spirited in love, at least in the beginning before it really means the big deal. But if I know myself right, I think I will get tired of this in the end, I have a big wish of stability in my relationships after some time, I would like it to be safe and not so unpredictable in that way where you don't know what your partner want. And that he is travelling this time isn't the problem because it's only once every year, but the sun square neptune is really nagging me. I think I get paranoid that it isn't for real. I'm not gonna run away imidiately before he comes home and I can see if this is for real or not. But I would never enter a real long-term relationship, because it's simply to unstable. Even though we have a nice connection, I think he is just one of those guys it is exiting to know for a while, before I move on once again!
I guess that people who have aspects between Uranus / moon or venus would be ok with uncertainty. Uncertainty kinda excites me. I have moon square Uranus and venus conj Uranus.
Also have a 12th house stellium and I "met" my husband online. We were living in different countries. I didn't feel that the relationship was difficult. With those 12th house planets I tend to wear rose-coloured glasses and get carried away with romantic ideals, so I was pretty much too "blinded" to notice the obvious difficulties.
Before, I used to act like an erratic mess when things became uncertain and seemed unsecure. My progressed moon's in Scorpio now so I just amputate, always remember and move on the best I can.
I'm a 7th house in Scorpio so is Pluto.
I want commitment right from the get-go. I know, I'm weird like that.
And I need a certain amount of constancy in my life, so LDRs wouldn't work for me.
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